Tuesday, December 18, 2007

There is, quite possibly, nothing better than capturing a moment when the indvidual becomes just that, Their own individual.

In general, people walk into the studio with a front, preconceived notions about how everything will be... What I love, is that in a matter of minutes, a new ease comes over them. They realise they won't be sitting on a fake swing and smiling over their shoulder. They realise there will be no "made up" moments. Because for me, that's not taking portraits. Sure, it's taking pictures, but not true portraits.

For me, a true portrait means capturing the true soul, the real energy with in each of us.

Take for instance the picture above. This shot, was just what you see. The young child had a tea cup that she was playing with, another person in the studio was going to take it away, but this one little cup let her be who she is. And not only who she is, but also who he is. Her father, her caring, loving father that will, for a moment, let his guard down and hear the world inside that little tea cup... That is, for me, what taking portraits is all about...

That is why, I love, yes I love, WHAT I DO!

~ Dwell in possibility ~

Monday, December 17, 2007

The Greener Way

"What I can’t consume, reuse or recycle, I’ll rent."
Living green is a state of mind, it's like a stream of consciousness that lives with in your spirit and effects your every day decisions. And I never thought about the differences a green wedding can make. Until yesterday, picking up a wedding magazine and reading an article on green weddings. At that moment I started to think about all the weddings I have shot and how many more weddings there are each and every year. Then I began to think about the world we live in, the world that lets us live upon it.
Don't get me wrong, I completely understand the importance and significance of a wedding celebration. I also recognize the amount of energy and resources that go into creating such an event.
Through the entire process, many choices must be made. From the flowers, invitations and attire to the food and beverages, party favours and travel. Along with many other countless details. And while for many of us, a completely green wedding sounds near impossible, it is important to think about each enviromentally (green) sound action you can take, and to know that each of those actions does, can and will make a difference. So go green with the choices that will work for you and know that each of those steps you choose will help preserve our earth.
Below are just some simple thoughts that may just be something to consider.
Invitations and paper

- Use recycled paper wherever possible for wedding invitations; most companies can offer this option. Also consider treeless paper made from materials such as bamboo, hemp and kenaf. Even the type of ink used for the invitation should be taken into account as some inks can be toxic.
- Weddings can generate a huge amount of paper consumption, so give careful thought to items that can be reduced. For example, instead of a program for everyone, perhaps one per couple or group.


- Throughout the leadup to the marriage ceremony, you'll no doubt have news to communicate with your guests about progress, venues etc. Instead of mailouts or bulky inserts accompanying the invitation, consider starting a web site or blog. This can also be very cost effective also as services such as Blogger.com can provide a blog for you for free. If you've had no experience with setting up a site or blog, companies such as Blogger provide easy to use tools. If you can use a mouse and a keyboard, you can run a blog!


- Where possible, use an organic catering company that sources local ingredients.
- Minimize the amount of meat on the menu and maximize the use of in season fruit, vegetables and local dairy products.


- Flowers used at weddings and receptions have a tendency to be out of season and therefore imported. Transportation and care of these flowers requires extra resources. Try to use locally sourced flowers.
- Perhaps use potted flowers as these can make a great addition to your home or garden after the big event.

Venue and travel

- As mentioned, I chose to have my wedding on a local beach. There was a good deal of luck involved weather-wise; but I can't think of a much more beautiful setting than one provided by nature!
- When selecting a venue, also consider where your guests will be travelling from. Try and find a middle point if possible. The less your guest have to travel, the cheaper for them and the less oil consumed.
- If you decide to hold the event indoors, try and select a venue that makes the best use of natural light.
- Encourage guests to purchase carbon offsets
for their travel. Explain to them what an offset is and how they can purchase them.

Car or van pooling

- Instead of having everyone drive from their hotels/motels or wherever they are staying to the wedding or reception venue, perhaps organize a car pool or hire vans to transport everyone to and from your wedding venue. A great deal of fuel can be saved this way, not to mention it will help ensure those who have imbibed in the spirit of the occasion a little too much will get back to their accommodation safely.


- Everyone likes a photographic record of a marriage ceremony, so instead of sending out hundreds of paper based photographs, save on postage, processing and toxic chemicals by storing digital images on your wedding blog for family and friends to download as they please; printing out only what's absolutely necessary.

Cutlery and crockery

- Disposable plates, cups, napkins and cutlery can create masses of waste at large wedding receptions. Consider hiring non-disposable cutlery and crockery instead. If that's not viable, try to use recycled paper products or treeless options such as bamboo.

Wedding dresses and clothing

- Does your wedding dress really need to be new? Consider a pre-owned dress - you can save a stack of cash by doing so!
- If you do wish to purchase a new dress, try to ensure that it is made from natural, organic materials such as organic silk or hemp.
- If you have no desire to keep the dress after the wedding, donate it to a charity who can sell it, creating funds for them and perhaps saving someone else from needing to purchase a new dress.

Gifts and favors

- Weddings can generate all sorts of well-intentioned but unwanted gifts. Consider setting up a green wedding gift registry; which is basically just a wish list of earth friendly products you'd like.
- Ask for no gifts be purchased, but donations made to your favorite charities or environmental groups.
- For wedding favors, i.e. gifts you give to guests, make those earth friendly too. It could be a carbon offset
to go towards their travel, a donation on the guest's behalf, a tree planted in their name or a gift basket of green products.

Wedding rings

- The amount of natural resources and energy that go into creating wedding rings is incredible. Consider very simple rings, or perhaps a re-fashioned pre-owned ring and for the truly adventurous; maybe a wooden wedding ring - that may sound a little strange, but these are amazing and very individual creations!


- Instead of having paper confetti, rice or seed, use flower petal confetti as a beautiful and easily biodegrable option.

Wedding cake

- Ask your baker to use organic ingredients only. This shouldn't present too much of a problem and is unlikely to increase the cost of the cake considerably.


- Whoever you are hiring to clean up after your wedding, ensure that they will separate recyclables from non-recyclables in order to minimize the amount of trash that winds up in landfills.
~ Dwell in possibility ~

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

It's not about the photography

It doesn't always have to be about my love and life of photography does it? I don't think it does... So today it won't be...

Today I have a different thought stuck in my head, it's been there for a few days now, so I'm thinking, if I put out there to the world it will leave my head. Or will it?

Anyway, I want to know what your thoughts are about reality. Does reality exist? If so what is it. What if my reality doesn't align with your reality, does that make my, or your, reality a false'ality? (ya, I just made that up, now it's real... now it's reality)...

Really, what makes up reality for each of us. And I can't get over the thought that if our reality doesn't line up with the other that it's just not real????


Reality, in everyday usage, means "the state of things as they actually exist." The term reality, in its widest sense, includes everything that
is, whether or not it is observable or comprehensible. Reality in this sense may include both being and nothingness, whereas existence is often restricted to being (compare with nature).
In the strict sense of
philosophy, there are levels or gradation to the nature and conception of reality. These levels include, from the most subjective to the most rigorous: phenomenological reality, truth, fact, and axiom.

SO... Does any of it make sense. Is there a reality for you. Is the reality for your life true, honest, and what you want. If you don't want it, why can't you make what you want a reality? Is it unreachable? What if you reach further? Could you then make the unreal, reality???

This blog is practically standing still, you're reading it, I'm typing it, making it real, but that doesn't mean it has to be a reality... Or does it?

Can you see why I'm stuck on this reality thought??? What are your thoughts??? No really, what are they???


"Dwell in the possibility"